HOW TO GET OVER A GUY

Whether there is a guy who is treating you badly, not talking to you, being rude or you have just broken up with a guy, here are some tips for you.

I feel as though I know some good tips as I have gotten over a guy and moved on and IT IS GREAT!

1. STOP TALKING TO HIM - 

Just because he is online, doesn't mean you have to talk to him - for a while it will be strange or weird seeing him online and not taking to him because maybe you always did - but trust me, this is the first step to take.

Ignore that he is online and evacuate - Not literally, but distract yourself, get off the chat asap and do your own thing.

2. WRITE - 

Whether it be on your phone, a blog, a journal or word - DO IT, Writing is a great way to get out your feelings and thoughts and have it out written somewhere, out of your brain and writing really does help, whether your finding it all hard and hurtful - just write, I promise it helps. 

A journal is always there to listen, you know - it might sound strange if you have never done it before but when you do it feels real.

If you still don't find it is helping, KEEP GOING - it doesn't matter how long it takes you, it could take months or a year to get over this person.

3. TALK TO FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SITUATION - 

I know sometimes or at some points in your life when talking to a guy and talking to a friend about the situation it can be quite tough or embarrassing but it isn't if you talk to the right friend.

I speak to my great friend about guy things and occasionally we ask each other so any guys? 

It just happens when your with a friend haha but also even guy friends can give good advice, After all they know how guys think and usually they look out for you if they are your friend. 

But friends always know what to say (if they are a good and supportive friend that is), don't be embarrassed, chances are they have experienced something similar and can be a helping hand.

4. WATCH SHOWS, MOVIES - DO ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY WITHOUT A GUY - 

So, the last thing I would say is to do something that you know makes you happy without a guy. Whether it be watching a feel good movie, writing, reading books, taking photos, drinking tea, shopping, drawing etc etc DO IT! This is how you get your power back and own it! By doing and finding something that makes you happy without a guy is super powerful because the next time you go through something with a guy, you know instantly what to do to get back to your happy place and you find strength and peace with that. 

Love N xx