Mean

Wednesday, December 09, 2015

M  E  A  N

Lately, seeing horrible comments about people, to people, about celebrities, about things people don't agree with or like have annoyed me. What changed? Our parents didn't bring us up to be mean to people, to criticise people, so why does it happen? 
It is okay to have your opinions, however,as the saying goes - if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all.
I think many many people need to think about this before they speak, the words that come out of some people's mouth is disgusting. We were all created to be individuals, to be unique and our own self. So, why do people make fun of others? Why do people laugh at other people? Why do people say mean things to other? 
                         It isn't right and something needs to change!

I think before the internet days, maybe people were not as mean? Maybe now that people can hide behind a keyboard, maybe that has become the problem because they can say whatever they want and feel no shame in it because they are not face to face with someone?.

What gives you the right to be mean to someone? 

You are not better then them? You are all people, you are all the same.
Yes, people look different and people have different personalities, but at the end of the day - we are all just people, just human beings. Human beings that are growing up in a world, in which we see more hatred, mean comments, more suicides and more bullying. Why? 

It is not okay to call someone ugly, to call them fat, to call them a slut, to call them anything other then a human being. You don't have to like everyone, but you don't have to be cruel and mean to anyone. 
Life would be so much better if everyone said kind things over mean things.
It is not okay to call someone anything...

Not only are people mean and cruel all over social media, but in real life also.
Who said it is okay to be mean to someone? No one.
Yes again, people may dislike a celebrity even and dislike what they have done etc. But hey, we all make mistakes and that is okay because we are only human and guess what? No one is perfect, no one.
So, stop picking on that kid you see at school, stop laughing at someone at the shops or work, stop being a keyboard warrior being mean from your tablet, phone or laptop, stop judging people, stop having expectations of what YOU think everyone should be like. Stop being mean.

It has been on my mind for the last month about this subject because everywhere I look there has been some kind of hate towards someone, towards something and towards people - and it is not ok.
What do you get from being mean to someone? What do you get by saying something mean about someone? What does it give you, by judging someone? 

I would say, Nothing -- However, I also don't understand what goes through people's mind when they say mean things. Yes, sometimes they do it because they are going through stuff - but seriously, honestly - Is that even really an excuse? 
Just because you are going through a tough time, does not give you the right to be mean to someone, it is not an excuse not to be nice to someone.


BE NICE TO PEOPLE, COMPLIMENT PEOPLE, SMILE AT PEOPLE.

From Natalia xx


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